The thing with her being overwhelmed is when I was home I was doing a lot of the things she is not used to. Every year I pick up kids presents and we wrap them together. This year I wrapped them and dropped them off at the condo. I picked up the teacher presents, cards, stamps, envelopes to send pics, labels to send cards. All of which were dropped off last night. Now I have a box waiting for me at my daughters daycare to wrap teachers presents. Here is her text to me.
W - I'm gonna need your help. I am beyond stressed I can't help S with family presents and teacher presents, I need you to take one of these projects on.
M- Bring the teacher presents to sitters and I will wrap them plus a few cards for them as well.
W - I picked up tissue paper and bags for S gifts
M- Gimme whatever you need me to do. I can wrap and work with him on his presents. Not a problem.
W- I just don't have any time this week.
M- Is everything OK
W- Busy swamped I just don't have time. Between wrapping, finishing shopping, private practice, D gymnastics, food shopping, pie baking. no i think thats it.
She is being paid this week to sit at her desk and surf online. No students at her university. She is off on Friday had nothing this past Sunday except kids.
She needs to feel like she is wonder woman and it seems to come back and bite her in the a$$.
Would it be better if I were there, yea I would have helped her out and she would not be this stressed out.
M37 W34 S6 D3 M8yrs T14 S 1year Told me she doesn't want to be married 10/2011 "I will never stop trying because when you find the ONE, you never give up." Steve Carrell Crazy, stupid, Love