Hey jb- I'm enjoying your thread, and I certainly appreciate the message you relay of having more time than you think you do! My wife is convinced she wants this to go fast - and assures me she'll have everything out of the house by the end of the month - but she sure doesn't seem to be moving fast at all, which is good, and leaves me with time to learn and grow.


Me: 36
Her: 35
Together 7/09
Married 8/7/10
Separate rooms since at least April 11
"I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11
She moves out of state/files 2/7/12
Dissolution final 5/12