I agree completely with Sandi on this. I was a perfectionist. It was one of the things that led to my W leaving. It took a lot to change the way of thinking and is still hard to do. Everyone has their own view of perfection, and we have to accept that. So in sense there is no true perfection. When people don't do things the way WE want them do, it doesn't mean its not right, its just their way of doing it, and we have to accept that.
M 33 W 29 S 4 M 5 T 7 11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents 12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over" 1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped