did you play ANY role in the demise of your marriage? Yes. I gained weight and had trouble keeping up with the housework after I had 2 kids 15 months apart.
And what about THIS R? This current relationship has never been healthy and balanced and it was okay at first, but the issue is that he has severe intimacy issues which I knew about immediately. Keeping the child we conceived is what triggered the end.
I say my children's fathers did not work with me because they would not get counseling, compromise, etc. Nobody is supposed to get everything they want all the time and I never expected to always get my way. I expect everyone needs to give up somethings or give more than they wish sometimes.
