Thanks, Sandi. I believe you mentioned that you were a WAW at one point. If I may ask, at what point (I know it is not a precise thing) does the WAW want to engage the LBH in a conversation about the state of the R/M? (Meaninng both the present and the future.) Perhaps a better way to ask it is this: if a WAW is wrestling with the idea that she may want to consider giving her H/M another chance, how does that diaolgue get created and what role, if any, does the LBH play in the conversation?
In my case, my W never discusses her feelings about the R/M with me other than to say (as previously posted) things are "awkward." At times, I sense that she wants to try a S in two different residences but she does not know how to set it up to her satisfaction.
I know she is surprised by the changes I've made as a result of the S. I just don't if they are enough to get to reconsider a D. I'm looking for any wisdom you are willing to share. Thank you.
