Down Again - Is he done yet?

[purgatory]

Hi DU. I was told to check out your post (from brenalim) and I just read everything from the beginning. I'm a similar sitch... My H wants out. We just found out yesterday that he will be deployed to Afg. in July this year, for 385 days. After reading all your posts, I'm emotionally in the same place you were when your H was getting ready to leave- depressed, hopeless, questioning my faith. I've read that you and your H were able to start piecing (yeah!) and now that things seem to be going downhill, I'm very sorry. I can only imagine your roller coaster of emotions right now.

I'm finding it very hard to GAL. I feel like I need to spend every moment with my H before he leaves, but he wants nothing to do with that. We are currently still in the same house, but he just got an offer from a friend to move in with him until he deploys

Being a fellow military wife, you can understand the 'normal' traumas of a deployment and the emotions that come with that alone.... now add it to M issues, and you have a 'perfect storm' of depression and sadness. Any suggestions you have for me would be greatly appreciated My thread is in 'newcomers: too little too late' (sorry I don't have it to copy here).
BTW, I am also in VA and will continue to live here while he's deployed so my kids can have a consistent environment (school, friends, etc)