How to get her to try again?

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Alexj,
I feel the same anger today. I know Abbey is right, but it doesn't make it any easier to cope.

I guess I just keep telling myself that hopefully our lost spouses wake up...and if they don't, we don't deserve or want them in our lives anyway.

I think there's some hope in the fact your W isn't pushing for the D. I would give this some more time if you can bear it.

I also saw your question on Xmas gifts. My H assumed we were exchanging, I told him that I assumed we weren't. We haven't revisited it yet, but today I'm angry about what he's getting OW and how I've been paying for their dates and vacations. I hate how everything feels ruined by their behavior.

Hang in there and know you aren't alone in how you feel.