The booze is just in the house. We had his family over in July and we bought a lot of items. When I invite him to do something, he says, honey, I am happy just sitting here wathing tv. This is SOOOO unlike him. I am still seeing my IC, but I am going to look for a MC - a pro-marriage one. I guess i am so worried about his moods that I am over-analyzing the situation and making more of it than it is. I think he is viewing my questions as the "same behavior". I just want to make sure he is ok.
He left for work this morning a little agitated.
In terms of the OW, I have asked him about her, but I have decided to ot bring her back into the relationship. I guess I wondered about if it started again because his behavior now is similar to what happened when he left home in 2009.
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."