Gifts? Has she expressed anything? I'm in the same boat and I know this is tough.

My W has told me what she wanted and I did get it and she even asked me what I wanted/needed. Weird?!? But hey it's a positive.

Listen to her and see what she says.

M 38
W 50
S 9, D 6
T 12 M 10
W's 1st EA 4/2007 stopped after confront
W's 2nd EA 6/2010
Separated 7/2010 I bomb dropped 7/2010
MC 2/2011 - 3/2011
W bomb dropped 4/2011
Nothing filed or done