Great advice, Rick and what I was trying to say. "Don't let the anger ruin the rest of your life".
And Luvless - I don't believe that infidelity can be excused. I will never forget the pain of it in my situation when my ex and his OW ran around blatently throwing it in our faces (she was also cheating on a husband and son). But that doesn't make it ok to throw it in their parents' faces - which makes YOU look bad too. Trust me - I know - I had to force myself every day not to do the same. But taking the high road, being the better person - always wins in the end. It just makes you look better and feel better.
Bad things happen to good people. The point is to not let the bad stuff make us bitter, but to make us better.
My posts are intended to help - not to hurt. It took me a long, long time to figure this out.
