Maybe I did stop focusing on me. I just noticed a somber ness in him and assumed it was us or me and maybe I introduced that thought to him. He is not sleeping, he is drinking, and for a guy who is usually very fit and active, he has become somewhat lazy. He sits on the couch just watching TV all day every weekend for the last 3 weeks.
In addition, the former OW has just moved into the same building where he now works; it is around the corner from where we live. I guess I am wondering if "they" have started up again.
I need to GAL. I did go out with friends last night. H called me several times. When I got home, he said he was worried. He didn't read my email regarding me going to happy hour with friends.
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."