on one hand, how are YOU being controlling when SHE is taking him out of state for 18 days?
That takes some nerve. Her perspective is very self serving so she's not aware of her own bias.
OTOH, why do YOU need an itinerary if she has given ont to her family? If there's a crash, they'll call. I mean I get that you want to know where your son is but you do pretty much know.
Keep those emails short and few.
The more you send the more she'll blow them off as being excessive and controlling.
My h texts me when he's away, and mostly the texts are tasks or "to do" lists and reminders...I hate that and we're married!
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016