Hi Purgatory,
Has your husband been to A-Stan before? Contracter or military? A year is a long time to be away from your family. It will give him a chance to really miss you and the kids... & an opportunity to cool off and evaluate what is truly important in life. Don't give up hope, let him move out without a fight and let him have his way. Sometimes "desiring" something is better than "having".... Once he moves out & heads to Afghanistan, he will miss you and maybe see that he was wrong. I'm a newbie, just passing on my 2 cents. Take care. I'm praying that we all find peace and happiness .
- I should be flying home to see my family tomorrow night- just finished demob'ing at a base down south after a year long tour in rural Afghanistan ... Excited to see my family but still nervous to see my W-


(F.K.A. Broken422)

US 40's
M 17,T 19
2 BOYS 13,16
Divorced 4/2012
11/2011 W SAID SHE WANTS D

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