WAW told me she idoesn't want to be married.

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Here is my question though. How long do you wait? I mean I am going on 8 months I know I am not ready for another relationship but how long do I wait for my W to make up her mind. Books say her affair technically would only last 6 months by average. Well they don't go out any where and its more of friends with benefits in my opinion.

Funny tonight my W texted me that she is feeling overwhelmed with everything and needs me to take over somethings for the holiday. Like teachers presents, which I already picked up, need to be wrapped as well as the gifts my son bought for our families. My wife bought bags and tissue paper. Now how long would it take her to put this togehter. About 15 minutes or so.
The other things she has to do , Bake pies, food shop, work at her second job tomorrow night and thursday, go to the gym, finish holiday shopping. Now she has nothing to do at work and at least an hour at night to do wrapping. Guess OM can't help her that would mean he has to put his drink down. Which this week is wine. I told her I would take the teachers gifts and my sons gifts since chanukah is tomorrow night. If we were together none of this would be happening. She is so illogical drives me nuts these days.