H says ready to work on relationship, now what?

[angel61]

In my sitch my H used to say, even when it all started, that he knew he was coming back to me someday. This was repeated all througout the year and a half that we were having problems, in different ways.

It may seem unfair, but it seems like what they are asking is for time to figure things out. Deep inside they know they would not leave.

Is it part of MLC? Finding themselves? maybe.

But I sure know that detaching, GALing and all the DB principles are there to protect ourselves.