You are right. My DB coach said the same thing today. I posted some of his advice in my Newcomers post. DB Coach says he lays out some bait to see if I jump. So far, I usually take the bait. Now I need create more distance and get busy GALing!
M:12yr 06/11:IDLYA 07/11:Moves out 08/11:PA disc(began in May) 09/11:Moves w OW 10/11:Breaks up w OW;gets apt 11&12/11: Touchngo w me 1/12: Comes home-PA resumes 2/12: PA disc; PA ends Today: Piecing