Personally, I think you should have gone out with the other woman. You'd only be getting a drink with her and not marry her. It would also help your self-esteem a little and get back your attitude.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.