Just wanted to say I feel I am in the same place with my H at the moment.
For 4 months since bomb, we seemed to be getting on well, but in the last month, nothing I do is right, it seems. He doesn't seem to notice my changes and the frost is getting arctic.
Like you, I feel that nothing I'm doing is working, and that H is drifting farther away; getting angrier all the time.
Reading your situation makes me think that maybe it's part of the process though...
This business seems so patterned that perhaps we are just experiencing another phase that WAS's go through???
