Never thought I'd be here......part 2

[kolja]

Granted, I'm new to the site and to the divorce busting process (and it will probably be a day or so before anyone sees this)...

But, you can't control what her lawyer sends you. You DO control whether or not it ruins your day. It might be discouraging - acknowlege it, sure. But hopefully you know yourself enough to know what would make you feel better - going for a run, music to listen to, a friend to talk to, whatever.

It's a hard habit to get into, but it seems like it's a helpful survival skill for me.