AC,
I'm a little confused. Does she want the D? Or does she just want a legal sep that would allow her to keep benes, etc? Does your state allow leg sep? What did she think would be the result of a D? Does she not understand that D would mean the end of her support system?

Just some questions, hang in there pal

m 54
XW 48
m 12
t 14
bomb 6-11
s 10-11
wife moved to other state 10-21-11
d 9-12

O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!