Lee, great to hear. I'm happy for you that things are moving in the right direction.
Speaking LL is only one tool in the R toolkit but like any other tool, if you overuse and solely rely on it, it could become dull.
This is another tool that you may like to consider. This is a link to the 10 emotional needs.. Just like LL, you need to discover the rank order of your W's needs if none of them leap out at you.
Suit
"It's better to have no spouse than have a bad spouse"