Welcome kolja. I have benefitted immensely from Chuck's coaching as well. That, along as my interaction here with other people in the same sitch have saved my sanity on countless days and have given me the strenght to continue down this DB patch. I wish you the best.
M:12yr 06/11:IDLYA 07/11:Moves out 08/11:PA disc(began in May) 09/11:Moves w OW 10/11:Breaks up w OW;gets apt 11&12/11: Touchngo w me 1/12: Comes home-PA resumes 2/12: PA disc; PA ends Today: Piecing