This is such a great thread. I love that the perspective is broad and objective and largely not focused in on the details of each person's situation. As has been said before, each MLCer and situation is slightly different, but then there's the script.

I see my H in a lot of what's been written here, the hiding, the roles that are assumed in order to cope, the depression, the fear, and my sense that he truly does love me very deeply there's just something in the way...

I vote for sticky!

me 45
H 46
T 5
M 2.5
BD Sept 6 2011
OW Sept 8 2011
Threw him out Sept 8 2011