What do I do next? Part 3

[luvhurts49]

I've been doing a little research the last couple of days and I was looking to see what other people's opinions are.

What I'm looking at, is the differences when the H leaves and the W leaves. It seems to me, when the W leaves, it usually ends up being a more permanent decision than when the H leaves. The H usually ends up being more remorseful and is more likely to return to the marriage as long as too much time hasn't passed. Of course, the phrase "too much time" could be debated.