Newbie: Is this MLC and how do I GAL?

[Some Day]

Thanks, all. Sandi, if i didn't know any better I would suspect you were easedropping on my DB coaching session today. Many of he points you mentioned were reiterated by my coach.

He said I need to continue on my GALing path and stop taking his bait and resume my pursuit each time he casts a line. I need to enjoy life and stop waiting around for him.

He mentioned I need to end the snooping, for me. He said that the next time H mentions reconciliation I need to convey that it will be hard work to win me over and that the burden of proof is on him to show that he has ceased and will not continue to have contact with OW or other women.

I need to start believing that I am expensive and worth it and if H really wants me back, he will need to work hard for it. Overall, coach believes I'm on the right path and he sees that H has taken some positive baby steps. However, he says there is still a lot more that H will need to do and only he can do this. I can't continue to make is easy for him. He told me that it's ok to have hope, but I must be wise. Know in my heart that I'm worth it and don't lower my price. He needs to know and feel that winning me back will cost him.