living in limbo

[learning2listen]

Well here we are, my H phoned me yesterday and I am in a tail spin..

He is moving in about a week, he has shared nothing with me as far as his plans etc for visits once he is gone.. he speaks to me only in regards to visits and usually the day before he wants to take d..

finally today i sent a text saying "are we going to discuss the plans once you move? his response.."i will call you later today"

I am postponing the inevitable when it comes to him. in his mind we are over and now he needs to figure out how he can live a couple hours away and still see his d..

he has not mentioned the divorce and it is only brought up when i bring it up.. I dont think he thinks it needs to be discussed.. he is moving and thats that...

I can honestly say I am hanging on to the hope that this is a temporary feeling and that he will come to realize no job, or bill, or any other stress out ways our family..but all it is doing is making me crazy.

I think he is avoiding the d conversation to avoid the conflict, not because he doesnt want one.. I think he thinks i will just file on my own due to not wanting to live this way... I dont see him making any effort to want us back. we have been apart for over 4 months and we barely talk...