Hopeful, he does sound confused and I can relate to your sitch. H and I still ML occasionally. I have no evidence of an EA or PA other than my own insecurities from time to time. It can be difficult to not have expectations and remain detached. It hurts quite a bit if they are cold in any way, after you ML the day before. Makes the roller coaster a bit rougher.
I hope your recovery is quick and that you aren't in much pain.
