My W and I are back from our ten days in Puerto Rico. My w is saying that this was our best trip together. What was different this time was my willingness to extend our trip to ten days instead of one week, her willingness to get up in the morning so we could start our day, and my willingness to try new things and listen to what she wanted to do. In the process, we discovered an island off the mainland that I think will be our home base on our next trip there.
It wasn't perfect. There were three different scenes where things didn't go well--going to a baseball game with my W who was drinking too much, my reading on the ferry before it left, and my wanting to be quiet on the ferry ride back. The evenings ended rough in those cases, but I made the decision the next day to get back on-track, and we did.
I'm off today before I return to work. I'll discuss the trip with my W, and see what further things she has to say.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."