Thx LITB... Yes, I realize she would find something... I just panicked this morning. Short sleep does not make a clear mind. If it wasn't this it would be something else...
And you're right of course... I only have a short time to DB as far as her not moving out and sparing the kids that turmoil, but I have as long as I want for dbing after that... I've actually started giving thought though to whether that's the road I want and why I want it. For now it is, but if I've learned anything it's to stay flexible and open-minded as all of this unfolds.
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD
