Last night at church we were asked three questions in the homily...

What darkness do you fear in the coming year?
What light do you seek in th coming year?
What light do you bring in th coming year?

I couldn't bring myself to get up and share, I wouldn't have been able to keep it together. But I believe my answers would've been...

I fear the darkness of loss, grieving, and rejection
I seek the light of forgiveness, the ability to forgive, and compassion
I bring the light of love

Married 6 together 8
Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both
SS12, SD10, S6
Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann)
W moved out: 2/18/12
D final: 11/12/12
Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD