Oh yeah... and some time in the past few weeks she updated her status on Facebook from "married" to "separated"... that was just icing on top of the crapcake I was able to have for breakfast.
I can tell you how that feels, my W did the same about a month ago and my heart dropped out of my chest. As for everything else it is probably better that you aren't in same bed/bedroom. Some alone time for her might help her see what she is missing? The incident may or may not have happened, it could be her trying to justify to herself a way out. I don't know, it stinks we have to sit back and let them decide what the next coarse of action is. You have about a month to DB your butt off, try to keep positive, there is still hope.
M 33 W 29 S 4 M 5 T 7 11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents 12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over" 1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped
