We had a family get together party. As expected, OW tried to use every tactic she could come up with, to prevent H from taking me to the family party. The B is a fruitcake.
She sent him texts using his daughter as a weapon, accusing him of not caring about his daughter and that she was second class because he was taking his WIFE to a family party.
H is still spinning round. Wants to lash out in texts to p her off. My comments are the same. You do that, you make your case harder to get your daughter. Let her make all the mistakes.... let her do the stupid things and say the stupid things. You will get her full time much quicker by letting her show everyone IN PRINT just how vicious she is. And how easily she'll use daughter as a weapon against you to manipulate and hurt you.
He still is making deals with god. Whilst he told all his brothers yesterday about all the crazy things that OW has threatened him with,... and the sis in laws at diff times chimed in with warnings about their feelings about the OW.... He still gets all brave, talking lawyer, then slides, saying well if she doesn't do such and such... THEN I'll get the lawyer.
He's still gathering his courage and skin in order to take her on. He's not there yet. While he held tight on not letting her ruin his day, and totally manipulate him... he's still in that spin cycle with her. One day at a time.
Abbey
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
