Newbie: Is this MLC and how do I GAL?

[labug]

I can't help but wonder if somewhere in the back of your mind, you think you don't deserve better than what he's dishing out to you. Why does he have no doubt that you'd take him back? Come on,girlfriend! Stop that kind of thinking! Find your dignity and stop waiting on him, snooping to see who he's doing next. You've got a better future than that awaiting.....if you want it

Great advice for all of us. I know I certainly taught my family how to treat me by rushing in to help them with their problems, whether asked to help or not, by always being available, by adjusting my life to suit theirs. By "reading" their minds and not asking for clarification or more information when I was confused about something.

We doormats have to stand up and reclaim our SELVES!