By the way, he didn't wear his wedding ring yesterday. I suspect he just wanted it for the interview.
I suspect you're right!
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It's hard for me to act uninterested, but I see your point. He has no doubt in his mind that I would take him back if he truly wanted to come back.
Okay, so what could you do to change his thinking and put a little doubt in his mind? I'd like to suggest that you make it your goal to stop giving him details about your activity.
If you feel like a doormat, you have one person to blame. You! The only way you can be a doormat, is if you lay down and allow others to step on you.
You must see that you are of great value! How can you expect him to treat you like a priceless diamond if you don't believe you are worth that much?
And, this isn't a 2x4. I talk like this all the time. (JK)
I can't help but wonder if somewhere in the back of your mind, you think you don't deserve better than what he's dishing out to you. Why does he have no doubt that you'd take him back? Come on,girlfriend! Stop that kind of thinking! Find your dignity and stop waiting on him, snooping to see who he's doing next. You've got a better future than that awaiting.....if you want it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Come on,girlfriend! Stop that kind of thinking! Find your dignity and stop waiting on him, snooping to see who he's doing next. You've got a better future than that awaiting.....if you want it.
