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Well this last week has been ok. My W has been very even and stuff so that is good. She has been sick for the last 2 days and I have been taking care of her. So hopefully she will appreciate it. Anyway not much going here.

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Thank you, Lee for posting on my thread. I hope things are OK with you. Continue to show you W how much you love her - you are doing a great job being kind and loving.


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Well things seem to be ok for now. The last week has been pretty even. She is getting better from the flu. She has apperciated my taking care of her.

It just seems that no matter what I do differently or the same though this is the same old marriage. Where I do this work and try to make things better and she doesn't do any of the changing. I will keep trying though and see where things finally take us.

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I think you're right, Lee, to give your M and your W some more time. How are her thyroid levels - has she had them checked again yet - I am behind in my reading on the bb, so I may have missed this. Rememeber what Ellie said about it taking a while for her levels to get up to what they need to be. You are doing a wonderful job of being supportive. Hang in there ~


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Well I do know that she hasn't had it checked again even though I have asked her about it multiple times. She doesnt think it is a problem becuase in her words she is feeling fine. I guess that time will tell on this one. I think that she has noticed also that I have pulled a way a little more. I dont talk to her about anything that has to do with sex becuase for some reason she thinks it is completely uninportant. I have stepped up my helpfulness with doing house work and such which may have been part of her being easier to live witht he last week.

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Would you please just count her pills and figure out how often she's taking them?

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She ran out about 2 days ago. She is having the perscription refilled. Im prodding her and poking her to get his taken care of.

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When was the prescription originally filled, and how many pills were there (i.e. did it take her three months to go through 30 pills?). Also, hopefully her doctor will want her to come back in and will not refill it for too long - have you called her doctor to voice your concerns yet?

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Well I think she had 60 pills to start out with maybe 90. Im not sure on that one. I will find out. I have not voiced anything to the DR yet because I am trying to get her to go in and get this taken care of. I actually just called her and asked her if she has refilled her perscription. She said no I also asked if she was going to make an appointment she said she would. I asked her if she could do it today. She said yes DAD very sarcasticly. So maybe I should call her DR when she is not home.
I really don't want to do this becuase I really dont want to have something get pushed between us with her thinking that I am being controlling. But it may be time to take the bull by the horns.

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She said yes DAD very sarcasticly




Well, that phrase sounds familiar. Just curious, have you talked to her doctor before? Will the Dr. talk to you? My W seems adament about keeping not talking to her Dr or Counselor.


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