I'm not getting overly excited...but called H at the airport (I thought it would be good to do a bit more pursuing). We had a friendly conversation and I thanked him for agreeing to counseling. H agreed it was the right thing to do for us and for him. He said, "I still care about you".
I'll take that as enough of a baby step for tonight.
M 44, H 46 D11, D9, D5 Married 12 years PA confirmed 9/2011 I filed 3/2012 H moved out 7/2012