Never thought I'd be here......part 2

[25yearsmlc]

Thanks 25. As per norm, you are quite right. I think I am just hungry for signs of progress so I get impatient.

Been thinking a lot a out some of the conclusions I arrived at through introspection. Really trying to make changes with W and others. Some of the things I heard feedback-wise from good friends (including someone that used to hate me) echos things i've heard from W in the past. The woman that hated me said she thought I was condescending. Got that from W on more than one occasion. I've had a lot of lights shine in on me and my faults lately. I'm actually grateful.

I contend that

the BEST news you can get from a mc, or WAS or friends, is that YOU have some things to work on....Flaws...character defects...

The BEST news you can get is that you are "wrong" in the situation...WHY??

B/C then You are Not Powerless.... so

if you arrive at a mc's office and both tell your story-

And the mc turns to you and says,

"Crimson, you are doing everything right...you are perfect. Even so,

Your w wants out."

Then you are truly powerless.


Crimson, when you really "get this"^^^, you will be empowered to change and your life will indeed improve.

YOU will improve. That is a gift.

make sense?

CM