She's also shared some feelings about her divorce, that give me hope that I might be able to patch things up with H... such as: "after 2 months, there was a moment when I looked back, and I wanted {FIL} to fight for our M, but he didn't.''
(I know my posts are still moderated and this will probably be time delayed, but...)
That's great to hear from your mother-in-law. I have similar hopes in my situation, that my wife will look back...
Me: 36 Her: 35 Together 7/09 Married 8/7/10 Separate rooms since at least April 11 "I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11 She moves out of state/files 2/7/12 Dissolution final 5/12