What do I do next? Part 3

[luvhurts49]

Our money was intertwined, but then I transferred everything to my name once she stopped putting money into our joint account. The money is still there (well, most of it) and it has already been reported to the L, I just didn't want my W to go on a spending spree.

As far as how my W acts when I pull away, it's really a mixed bag. Some things she reacts better to when I pull away, somethings she reacts better if I try to put on a happy face. Regardless, it is always minimal interaction and rarely do we actually speak. Almost all interaction is about the kids and most communication is via texting or email.

That's why dinner the other night was a bit of a shock since it required interaction and communication not to mention the two of us actually being somewhere at the same time. Of course I still cannot explain the hug, the meaning behind it, or whether it will happen again.

I don't think that I have been this confused since shorty after my W left. Increase in stress, anxiety, and confusion--yep, sounds about right.