In my first post to your thread I made the statement below:

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If he heard tonight that you were going to move in with another man, he'd be all over you trying to make you believe how much he loves you! Why? B/c that's where he is mentally/emotionally. The minute he knew he still had your heart, he'd lose interest again.


He has not had to work to get you back. In fact, if he's even "asked", I must have missed it. No wonder he can just ask for his wedding ring back and put it on his finger, without as much as one word of explanation! But then, why would he, if you keep jumping every time he rings the bell?

As long as you make it too easy for him to reunite with you, I don't think he'll stay interested long enough to even move back home. You need to get a life that does not have time for this nonsense from him. Let him see how uninterested you are at any suggestions he might make. How dare him to text you mad he's ready to work things out! Talk about taking you for granted!

What if he discovered it's not that easy to waltz back into your life after he destroys the M, lives with a couple other women, and has his fun acting like a stupid teenager?

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!