Hi everyone! Need to update you here. I had surgery on the 15th of December, which everything turned out fine. Well, My H wanted to come and support me. He picked my D and myself up at 6:15 and we dropped her off at daycare and then off to the hospital. I tried to stay detach from him and pretend we are friends. But the truth is, I am so happy that he was there for me. We did do some talking. He was the one that initiate them. Well, when I was being rolled to the operating room, he gave me a kiss and said "I LOVE YOU". That took me by surprise. I didn't even respond back. I was in shock. So, I figured after surgery was over, he would take it back. But he didnt. Did he say it because he thought something may happen to me or did some feeling escape from him? Now he is back being cold and distant from me.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)