I think your supposed slip up the other day also reflects on your H snooping at your phone. Next time remember to turn the ringer off.

Regarding you FIL stich it reminds me of a mutual female friend of me & my H who I felt overly supported my H by giving him kid furniture for his new apt. I posted this story on my board and the best advice I got was Keep your friends close but your enemies closer.

I know it stinks but if you can somehow impress the old geezer (I only call him that b/c of his despicable actions) it may influence your H.

I wouldnt go crazy trying to win him over but it your think of it more like a secret spy mission maybe it can at least make being around him bearable.

You are doing great. Go easy on yourself


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13