Integrity is something that means something to all of us. ... and you're right ITM, that it's hard not to be bitter. The heart wants what the heart wants, even though we know in our heads that they've gone right loose in the head.

Take care of you. And take care of your kids. It's good that your S28 sees/knows the pain your H is causing. He's not about to give him a free pass for it either. Good for him.

Hugs
Abs

T:22, M:20
H:55 Me:45
H-OW PA: N/07
OW Jan08
Bomb:Feb/08
S: Apr/08
Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11
Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess.
Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.