I was thinking what snodderly said and the she said it - it could be it wasn't from him, ow could have got it herself!
seeking, think about volunteering somewhere for a new tradition. Be a red bell ringer, help serve meals at a food bank. Take a trip somewhere warm and volunteer at a shelter. See life from someone elses perspective.
(((seeking)))
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.