Just a thought about the crazy train. Most of our MLcers tell us they were not happily married, and never were [although this varies depending on many things, including it would appear, the phase of the moon!]

Now I don't know about you, but if I hadn't been happily married, to the extent that I needed to leave and fast, would I really expect to find happiness in a new relationship?

Of course not, I would run a mile from an institution that had 'made' me unhappy. And yet our MLCer thinks their salvation lies in a new relationship . . . . am I the only one that finds this a little strange?