Oh, and it did enter my mind that H, while not wanting to give me what the state says is my allotment, but it's possible that he using the excuse that he can't afford to D me because "I" put him in so much debt so that he doesn't have to deal with the ow's pressure to marry her.
Please understand that I don't spend a lot of time on this stuff. This is a little different than most of the stuff I hear. I'm the type that tries and put the puzzle pieces in place so that I can understand and deal with it before putting it away.