Well thanks everyone. This is still such an on going thing. I really don't like being in this position. Becuase im the one who is the bad person trying to get my W up and doing things. So I am called names and such when I do try and get her out of bed.
Like yesterday I think she slept for about 18 hrs. She goes to bed a about 6:30 am(she works graves) and doesnt get out of bed till about 6:00pm I tried to get her up at 4 to go with me to the store and buy food but I was the jerk who was trying get her out of bed to do something. So I went alone. She got up and put D to bed at 8:00 and when I came back down stairs at 9:30 she was asleep on the couch. So I saw her a total of about 30 mins yesterday.