I am back here. My H and I have been back together since April. After a long week for both of us, I pushed H this morning and he says he is not happy and maybe it is him or that he would not be happy in any situation. He says he does not want a D, but doesn't seem to want to do anything to resolve whatever it is that is troubling him.
He says he wants me to trust him and I know I have that issue to resolve on my own. He doesn't seem to have any hope for our marriage. I am so depressed, I am not sure what to do. When we talk, he is so quiet, unlike when he first got home. - He always wanted to talk. Not sure what to do.
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
Hey Destiny, have you considered Retrovaille? I've heard that this is a very worthwhile program for couples who are piecing their marriage back together. Perhaps you should give it a look see. You should be able to find it via google.
Good luck!
Me51 W53 S17 S14 M22 T25 Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11
It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
I have not considered retroville. I have never even discussed this site to my husband. He seems sad and I am not sure what to do. So when I pushed him, even again last night, he sayd he feels as though he is compromising his happiness by staying married. HELP!!!
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
