Hi BM,

You really did awesomely! I'm inspired by your post.

I need to hear this sort of thing.
I still struggle with emotionally hurtful matters like making plans for the kids to stay with H in his new digs, and him moving more and more of his belongings out.

But your superhuman efforts have shown me the way to DB properly.

Cool, calm and collected (at least on the outside) or, as my coffee mug says: Keep calm and carry on.

Well done you,
NLW