Wife Left (Part 2)

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ok to clear the air, I am totally fine with her being late today. I admit I got a bit upset, but really I was over it once I was at work. I only sped off like a bat out of hell because my job requires me to be there or someone else to be there in my place. I didn't want someone to be mandated to stay because of me being late. I know the old me was very childish with stonewalling W when I was angry, and even more immature how I held a grudge. It is one of the reasons she left me. W called twice while I was out tonight. First time I resisted urge to answer phone and let it go to message. 2nd time I was at hockey game and didn't even know she had called because of no reception. I listened to first message and had every intent on calling her back after the game. She apologized many times during call, and asked if 8 am was a good time to drop son off. 2nd call she seemed a bit frustrated that she didn't get a hold of me and explained I should call her back no matter what time it was to make arrangements for her to drop S off in morning. I called her and told her I was on way home from game, and she now understood why I hadn't gotten back sooner. She asked if 8 am was good to drop S off and I said yes it was fine. I told her I would see her in the morning. She then apologized again for being late. I told her it was no big deal, and I knew she didn't do it on purpose. I told her stuff like that happens and its no reason for me to get upset. She then said she thought I might have been angry the way I sped off, I told her no, I was just in a hurry. She apologized a few more times, I said don't worry about it. I told her I'd see her in the morning we both said good night. BTW hockey game was a good time tonight. My friend admitted that I wasn't as rowdy as I would have been if I were drinking, but he said I was still my talkative (with out the swear words) outgoing self. Oh and 25 thanks for the advice on the money thing too. I think I'll stick with helping support her financially right now (she is my wife). Now hopefully tomorrow she apologizes one last time in person, so I can look her in the eye thank her for the apology and tell her that its ok, and that accidents happen, so SHE can see my changes. I think this could be a huge plus for me